Sex and Internet

My uncle told me there was no sex education or knowledge when he was a teenager, relative knowledge came from two magazines, called Penthouse and Playboy, but he didn't dare to buy
such magazines in public places, many of them were sent from his friends, because his dad or mom would give him a harsh punishment, if he brought pornography to home.

My sex knowledge some of them came from school, most of them came from Internet, when i was a teenager, i use some keywords such as sex, porn, xxx .... etc to search by search engine, i will get a lot of information about sex, some of them are official sex education, however, many of them are pornography, so i knew what's sexual intercourse, what's a girl's pussy, where is the clitoris and where is the vagina. Thank Internet, so i am not like my uncle so sneaking to see Penthouse in toilet.

However, sexual intercourse is just a minor part of sex education, how to deal with opposite sex is also important. Fortunately, i grew up at country, there are many boys and girls who are our neighours, we often played together, i think it was a good chance for me to learn how to deal with oppsite sex at my childhood.

Some parents talk about how to install censor software in their kids' computer, i think it is not practical, since there are too many porn sites in Internet and search engines are so powerful today, we can't censor all of them. Even you can, your kids may see them from their friends' computers.

Nowadays is 21st century, sex should not be a secret or taboo, we need an open mind to teach our kids how to face sex, open and share are practical ways, you can see a porn site with your kids, tell them what kinds of porn site is suitable for them, let your kids tell you which sites they are always visiting, so it is controllable. But if you ban them, you are forcing your kids to visit the porn sites in secret and alone, some porn sites are talking about violence, rape, group sex, sadism ... they are the most harmful for kids, unfortunately, you don't know your kids often visit such web site, it is uncontrollable.

Penthouse and Playboy still are strangers for me, i just know models in such magazines are very beautiful.